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Spanking leads to aggressive children

Tuesday, February 7, 2012
A leading paediatrician has recently called for the banning of smacking children and now a Canadian study backs up his claims — finding that slapping kids may have long-term, harmful effects on their development.

In a letter published in the Journal of Paediatrics and Child Health today, Dr Gervase Chaney, President of Paediatric and Child Health at the Royal Australian College of Physicians claimed that Australia is lagging behind other countries outlawing smacking, and compares some cases as forms of child abuse.

To further fuel the debate, a new review of 20 years of research has found links between "everyday" types of physical punishment (slapping and spanking) and higher levels of child aggression.

"I think it's important for parents to understand that although physical punishment might get a child to do something in the immediate situation, there are many side effects that can develop over the long term," said co-author Joan Durrant, a child clinical psychologist at Family Social Sciences at the University of Manitoba in Canada.

"For example, the more often a child sees a parent respond to conflict or frustration with slapping or spanking, the more likely that child will do the same when confronting their own conflicts."

Based on such findings, experts are increasingly encouraging parents to discipline their children with positive, nonviolent approaches.

Dannielle Miller, teacher and parenting expert told Today that smacking is not an effective form of punishment and usually the parent feels guilty afterwards.

She suggests age-appropriate punishment works better, such as time out for toddlers or withdrawal of privileges — no TV or bedtime story.

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Have your say: do you think smacking should be banned?

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Neglect of a child in the form of BOTH parents having to work to provide the basics such as shelter, food, clothing & education is, in my sense of priority, a far worse form of child abuse than a smack on the bottom for being out of control. Yet they fail to address that in their infinate wisdom of "spare the rod spoil the child" philosophy...
I would love it if the smacking parents bosses would smack them when they did something wrong at work, see how they would feel about that. I dont think they would fell respectful towards their bosses, more so hateful. I cannot believe that smacking is still not illegal, it truely is a form of abuse, and a lazy outdated form of parenting. If you are going to care for children, make sure you have the patience to do this without hitting them! (Hitting and smacking is the same thing) There are other ways to discipline your children - if you keep hitting them you are going to ruin them for life, thinking that it is ok to be in abusive relationships as adults or to hit other children in school because they have done something "wrong". I cant see where "the love" is when you are smacking your own child who looks up to you. It shouldnt be allowed.
i am continually surprised and concerned that people think if parents aren't hitting their children then theres no discipline are none of you aware of the other more logical and more constructive forms of discipline?
Good old fashioned spanking never outdates. We all love our children & want the best for them that's why it's important to discipline them early. I'm not saying beating them up but just a slap on the bottom from time to time to shock or get their attention.
disciplining your child is not abuse. sometimes, a light smack on the backside provides shock value more than pain, and so shows the child the difference between "ok, you probably shouldn't have done that, but no harm done" and "oh my god, you are going to hurt someone, or yourself." i have actually walked away from my child in the shopping centre (with my partner keeping a discreet eye on the child) because they wouldn't stop throwing a tantrum, and this was the only way to show that I wasn't going to listen. But, regardless of this - if they take away a parents right to discipline their child, we will have even more children thinking that they can get away with anything they like, and society will not punish them, because their parents are not allowed to. What's next - children deciding what medical proceedures are in their own best interests??? Children opting out of life-saving surgery because it HURTS? Where does society's ability to interfere end?
I think they have it backwards, NOT smacking kids leads to aggressive children. I'm sick of hearing about how smacking kids is such a terrible thing. It's DISCIPLINE, not ABUSE. There is a huge difference. I was smacked when I was little and I'm glad. I'm only 17, but still, I'm very thankful not to have grown up into an ignorant, selfish brat that so many kids seem to be today.
I am a foster carer, and with older children who have been round from home to home a bit it is not uncommon for them to slap you and then laugh at you and say a version of - "you can't do a thing about this - I'm a foster child." The theory is to give them time out, but that is assuming that they are willing to stay in the corner. I have never had one who is. I once put a child in his bedroom, only to come back in a few minutes to find that he had prized out the light switch with a toy and dismantled the wiring in his bedroom. So I never tried that one again. For obvious reasons. I have had a six year old grab my keys and drive away with my car, throw the eggs in the fridge arounf the house, push a hat over my face while I was driving on a highway...well., I could go on. And on. What can be done if you do not smack? The answer seems to be to drug them up heavily with things like ritalin or just keep moving them around from home to home in desperation.
babys try to take over from day 5 if you respont every time to ther need you will be slave all your live so when they grow up they have to be taking in the right order not taking over and they have to learn to have respect so the only way is to belt it into them like my father did and i have 3 of my own with respect for athers my mother tallt me good old resepie the teacher give me the cain and i grow up very strait with respect
Those of us old enough can see the bigger picture for what it really is. Try going back beyond those "20 years", well before political correctness and care bear mentality to when parents actually had time to spend with their kids raising them with boundaries, morals, integrity, being accountable, responsible, etc etc etc. Funny how the crime rate etc has jumped with the don't smack and lets rob parents of their rights to be parents! I don't suppose any of these geniuses thought about the fact that these kids who have become antisocial brats are not scarred by the smacking but by the total lack of having Mum and Dad there because Mum and Dad are too busy working their butts off to actually have the time to be proper parents! There was no where near the crime rate, anti social behaviour we have today when I was a kid and you don't have to go back THAT far to see that FACT and see where everything went amiss! Kids act up for 1 reason only... they want YOUR attention!!!
"... the more often a child sees a parent respond to conflict or frustration with slapping or spanking, the more likely that child will do the same when confronting their own conflicts" is a complete falsehood in my experience (aside from being completely emotive). Only a young child, and more particularly a child who hasn't been trained and disciplined to know such behaviour is unacceptable will hit someone else. Children usually have no problem discerning the difference between a disciplinary smack and something else ... it's only adult experts who can't work that out ... Common sense truly is dead, and especially so in modern parenting.

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